Obstacles, whether overcome or not, allow for growth and wisdom. They make us stronger. If we do not overcome, we still might become stronger by standing still; steadfast. And if we trip and fall, we most likely will eventually get up. Obstacles we cannot conquer alone, often push us to seek help. Hence, the lesson to learn is:
- Assistance helps curb excess pride
- We learn who we can count on
- We recognize our limitations
- God can be glorified if we seek His help
- We might consider a different direction. Was this the right path to start out with?
- Timing. Time is everything. The right thing at the wrong time is not right at all
Of course, in retrospect, after we
rise above the challenge, one might notice:
- We develop new skills
- We exercise existing skills an improve proficiency
- Build self confidence
- Raise levels of trust in God, family, friends, methods and systems. Or what not to trust...
- The next time we run into a similar hindrance, we know how to succeed
- We're able to understand, teach and help others.
So, true is the proverb: "That which does not kill me makes me stronger."